tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-262545220865578302.post6144547126169077991..comments2023-10-05T08:10:14.360-04:00Comments on The Cereal Bowl: The "Thing"LadyWriterhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10224164630892638855noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-262545220865578302.post-59018204866196069482007-02-26T18:32:00.000-05:002007-02-26T18:32:00.000-05:00I go back and forth in my head on these matters al...I go back and forth in my head on these matters although I'm sure I shouldn't. I've gotten better with my dwelling thing, but it will always be my nature.LadyWriterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10224164630892638855noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-262545220865578302.post-43320207850950994222007-02-26T18:13:00.000-05:002007-02-26T18:13:00.000-05:00I don't know why I hesitated to post a comment, bu...I don't know why I hesitated to post a comment, but I do kind of know what you're saying. I do understand the "thing", but I like to think that those are the people that shaped who I am now, but never have and never will define me. For me, there were several women I dated, but many more friends of both sexes who were the "thing" for me. Or maybe I just don't understand exactly what you mean.<BR/><BR/>My concern for you is that you are dwelling too much on the past. All those old folks are just a small part of who you are. Not one of them could give you everything you need, at least not based on past experiances. <BR/><BR/>I know Calhoun is a small fishbowl, but in the words of Joey and Chandler "Grab a spoon". Just because you're in a rut, doesn't mean you have to fish the muddy waters. Yes, I'm mixing metaphors.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com